{"id":13442,"date":"2021-07-12T05:40:18","date_gmt":"2021-07-11T21:40:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/divineconnectionshope.com\/?page_id=13442"},"modified":"2021-07-12T06:38:16","modified_gmt":"2021-07-11T22:38:16","slug":"red-flags","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/divineconnectionshope.com\/red-flags\/","title":{"rendered":"Red Flags"},"content":{"rendered":"

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It\u2019s not always easy to tell at the beginning of a relationship if it will become abusive.<\/p>\n

In fact, many abusers may seem absolutely perfect on the surface \u2014 as if they are the dream partner \u2014 in the early stages of a relationship. Possessive and controlling behaviors don\u2019t always appear overnight, but rather emerge and intensify as the relationship grows.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re beginning to feel as if your partner or a loved one\u2019s partner is becoming abusive, there are a few behaviors that you can look out for. Watch out for these red flags and if you\u2019re experiencing one or more of them in your relationship, reach out for help.<\/p>\n

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  • Embarrassing or putting you down<\/li>\n
  • Looking at you or acting in ways that scare you<\/li>\n
  • Controlling who you see, where you go, or what you do<\/li>\n
  • Keeping you or discouraging you from seeing your friends or families<\/li>\n
  • Taking your money or refusing to give you money for expenses<\/li>\n
  • Preventing you from making your own decisions<\/li>\n
  • Telling you that you are a bad parent or threatening to harm or take away your children<\/li>\n
  • Preventing you from working or attending school<\/li>\n
  • Blaming you for the abuse, or acting like it\u2019s not really happening<\/li>\n
  • Destroying your property or threatening to hurt or kill your pets<\/li>\n
  • Intimidating you with guns, knives or other weapons<\/li>\n
  • Shoving, slapping, choking or hitting you<\/li>\n
  • Attempting to stop you from pressing charges<\/li>\n
  • Threatening to commit suicide because of something you\u2019ve done<\/li>\n
  • Threatening to hurt or kill you<\/li>\n
  • Pressuring you to have sex when you don\u2019t want to or do things sexually you\u2019re not comfortable with<\/li>\n
  • Pressuring you to use drugs or alcohol<\/li>\n
  • Preventing you from using birth control or pressuring you to become pregnant when you\u2019re not ready<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Domestic violence doesn\u2019t look the same in every relationship because every relationship is different. But one thing most abusive relationships have in common is that the abusive partner does many different kinds of things to have more power and control over their partners.<\/p>\n

    If you\u2019re concerned about some of these things happening in your relationship, please feel free to give us a call.<\/p>\n

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